Role Models

Someone asked me a few weeks ago who my role models were. I stopped and thought for a second. Nobody in particular stood out. 

“Do I not have a role model?” I said. No one person has really taken me under their wing as far as the lessons of life or professional guidance goes.

Today, I ran into a classmate and colleague I graduated with recently. Her genuine interest in my day and wellbeing was so refreshing. It made me feel important and seen. 

I thought about my role models after this interaction. My role models come in many forms.

They come in the form of my former classmate. 

They come in the form of the nurses I have worked alongside.
I have seen some of my colleagues express such deep compassion coupled with sharp, live-saving clinical skills that inspired me to become a better nurse.

The patients I have taken care of. 
Working in a burn unit taught me that recovery is possible but it takes a lot of grit and determination. Your attitude during the process impacts your healing.

My role models come in the form of my friends who have faced many obstacles but have still managed to create successful and happy lives for themselves.

The successful females that work in male dominated professions.
All the women residents I worked with throughout the years that go into surgery specialties even though they will face the challenges to take up space to be recognized in a patriarchal culture.

People who demonstrate genuine kindness and caring for others.

People who keep their word and show up.

People with great success but also lots of humility.

When I think of this list above, some people come to mind: Azmina, Rachelle, Katie, Kim, Ashley, Mary, Ernie, Michelle, and many names I can’t remember.

Who are your role models? In what ways do they embody your goals? What do they do that you admire? What have they taught you? How valuable has it been to your wellbeing? 

Feel some gratitude for them right now.

If your role model is in your life currently, let them know. Thank them. I bet many of the traits you see in them, they don’t even realize. When my classmate Azmina showed genuine interest in how I was doing, it modeled an idea I’d love to move forward. 

Appreciate the people in your life. Tell them every moment you can. Give them love. This will deepen your connection and bring more love into your life.